This is especially true if we have close friends of the opposite gender. Things that have helped are my relationships with Jesus Christ, older married mentors and intentionally investing in my wife. Do you feel comfortable with the idea of being friends with your ex?
Israel got into trouble over and over again when they strayed from God to follow after the gods of the pagans around them. Just my opinion. This is probably why I feel uneasy about opposite sex relationships in work.
Things that have helped are my relationships with Jesus Christ, older married mentors and intentionally investing in my wife. Work on that relationship above all else. Both Debbie and Tony say that their open relationship has helped spice up their marriage and is the key to a solid relationship.
April 26, at am. I still think it is wrong for my husband to go to a dating site to find a friend of the opposite sex and behave like a teenager. IDK what to do anymore. June 22, at pm. However, a coworker has become really close with her as of about a month ago and they regularly go out to grab lunch, they go on walks often at work during break, etc.
My husband and I had similar issues with what we considered appropriate in regards to communication and friendship with the opposite sex. It takes a secure person to say, "I'm not living like this. Kevin McCarthy says:.
In most other eyes, is this not a red flag? I won't pretend that I'm not hurt because you're putting energy into this friendship instead of our relationship. But instead of respecting their spouse's feelings, they continue to indulge in the ego-boost or thrill of it all.
Some people will say that they've always had opposite-sex friendships and that shouldn't change just because they get married.